LAMHE

There is a very fine line between self-care and selfishness — and most of us learn the difference only after being hurt. Selfishness is the art of placing one’s own interests above everyone else’s, without care, without pause, and without apology. Unfortunately, the world is full of such people — in the form of friends, colleagues, and sometimes even family. If you surround yourself with individuals who are chronically negative, self-absorbed, or emotionally unavailable , don’t be surprised when you find yourself mentally drained and emotionally hollow. Keeping a selfish friend is like investing in a dead stock — they will never give you returns, only regret. What makes it trickier is this: these individuals often wear the mask of charm . They appear kind, interesting, and agreeable — until it’s too late. So, based on over four decades of observing people, I want to share a few quiet warning signs. Learn to see them early — not bitterly, but wisely.  Watch their r...