Dear Mrinalini,
Today is the first birthday since your birth that I am not physically present. I could have come to you to celebrate your first birthday after marriage with you, but I chose not to.
The reasons are varied, and you will comprehend them when you recall everything I've been telling you for years.
Your Nanu used to call me "JHANSI KI RANI" not only because I was very courageous, but also because he had confidence in me, he believed in me, and it was because of this that he went against the family's decision and allowed me to marry your Dad. Now you know why Nanu did not cry at my Vidai's , not because he loved me less, but because he had faith in me. He knew that I could handle any situation and that I would be fine in any circumstance; he also knew that I would accept responsibility for my actions.
The ART OF LIVING was taught to me by his upbringing. I proved him RIGHT, as you already know.
Therefore, I am not with you today, but I am confident that you will be happier than on your previous birthdays, not because you do not love me or miss me, but because you have learned adaptability and flexibility, which will always contribute to your happiness in life.
Remember? I've always said, and also mentioned in my speech at your wedding reception, that ever since I was a child, I've desired to have 4-5 daughters who are all involved in the arts... Not because I am an artist myself, but because all forms of art teach us the Art of Living. This is why I taught you & Rupali Dance & Music from a young age.
Always consider your Dance & Music lessons when confronted with a contrary circumstance.
There are two performers on stage. Give your all. Your performance with your partner cannot be satisfactory without rhythm, beat, and coordination. Your notes and pitch should be at the same level or harmonics for a seamless blend. You need melody in your song, but if the lyrics are incorrect, you will have a poor performance; therefore, artists should help each other remember the lyrics without being noticed by the audience. Your family members are on the backstage like the musicians and accompanists; they will provide assistance or clues if you miss a beat, rhythm, or note, but they cannot join you on the main stage. They are a part of your performance, but you are responsible for your poor performance.
Discipline, practice, passion, uniqueness, respect, creativity, sacrifice, and TIME are not only the keys to a successful stage performance, but also to a successful life performance. Not last but not least Please do not forget that the audience applauds both good and poor performances, but you must recognise the sound of claps and take it seriously rather than personally.
I am optimistic and confident in your ability to succeed. Best birthday wishes to you.
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