Finding a perfect partner or making a perfect marriage with the partner you found?
Twenty-five years ago, Vikram and I officially became a family. But if I count the years we’ve shared our hearts, it began thirty-five years ago. That’s more than half my lifetime. And still, I can say — with all my heart — that loving him was one of the best decisions I’ve ever made. As I scroll through our photos, flip through old memories, and remember the music, the laughter, and the silences we’ve shared, I feel nothing but gratitude. Not for perfection — but for resilience. Not for a flawless partner — but for an imperfect, enduring love. This Isn’t About Us — It’s About What We’ve Learned On our recent anniversary, I posted a picture of us on Facebook — a simple moment, a small tribute. The comments came pouring in: “You’re lucky to have each other.” “Such a perfect couple!” “How do I find someone like that?” I’m touched by the love, but I must confess: The secret to a lasting marriage isn’t about finding the perfect person. It’s about creating somethin...